2 Corinthians 12:6 ends with Paul making the statement "But i refrain, so no one will think more of me than is warranted by what I do or say."

Are the things you say and do what you would want people to judge you on? In what areas would you prefer they thought something different? What would those people who see you every day (whether they are friends or not) say defines you?

Its not that it matters what other people think of you, but what they think of you could tell you some clues about where the differences between who you want to be and who you are.